Don Barry
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Don Barry is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Don Barry is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Red Barry depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Don's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Don Barry may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
Don Barry tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Don feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Don Barry also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Red Barry to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Don Barry may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Don Barry craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Don Barry to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Red Barry. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Red Barry likes it that way.
Although Don Barry was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Don's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Don does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Don Barry is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Don Barry insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
He is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to his surroundings. Don may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Don Barry may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.
Don has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Don Barry, and he is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of his friends.
In love relationships, Don Barry seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Don, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Don Barry supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Don that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Don Barry is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Don Barry craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Don loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Red Barry.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Don's nature and Don Barry feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Red Barry. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Don Barry has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
He is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and his relationships tend to be harmonious. Don Barry will probably marry for love and his mate will be a friend to him as well as a lover. The atmosphere in his family life is affectionate and protective.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 7th house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon Square Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposition Uranus/Neptune
Moon Opposition N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon
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