Tom Meighan
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Tom Meighan has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Tom Meighan is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Meighan for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Meighan's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Meighan. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Tom, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Tom Meighan frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Meighan identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Tom has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Meighan cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Tom Meighan craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Meighan also loves to feel free and unfettered.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Tom does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Tom Meighan is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Powerful and complex emotions stir Tom Meighan, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Tom does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Tom Meighan needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating if Tom Meighan is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Tom Meighan is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Tom must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Tom Meighan cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Meighan's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Tom at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Tom Meighan is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Tom Meighan may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Tom desires.
Tom Meighan craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Tom loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Meighan.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Tom Meighan yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Meighan frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Tom Meighan does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 12th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mars/Asc.
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Neptune
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