Judith Exner
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Judith Exner only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Exner.

Judith has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Judith Exner has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Judith Exner to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Judith Exner has a great deal of emotional depth.

Exner depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Judith's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Judith Exner may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Judith has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Exner cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Judith Exner insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

She is highly sensitive to everyone around her and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Judith Exner has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Exner to keep her expectations a bit lower.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Judith Exner values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Judith desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Exner, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Judith Exner appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Exner is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Judith Exner thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Judith Exner appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Judith Exner will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Judith, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Judith Exner tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Exner's life.

She is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Judith Exner to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Exner may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Judith Exner will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of her (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mars/Neptune

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Quincunx Pluto