Coleen Gray
motivation

Her sensible, practical, down-to-earth appearance (described in the previous chapter), combined with her interest in relationships and other people (described below), make Coleen Gray a very pleasant and likeable person. Others come to Coleen Gray for practical advice and to share their concerns and feelings.

Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Coleen Gray instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Coleen does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.

Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Gray since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Gray will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Coleen Gray, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.

Coleen Gray invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Coleen Gray seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Gray perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Coleen Gray appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.

Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Coleen Gray fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Coleen. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.

Coleen Gray also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Gray dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.

Her energies are directed toward either honing her professional techniques, skills and abilities or "perfecting", refining, and improving herself as a person. Critical analysis and attention to minute detail are intrinsic in either process. Coleen Gray is highly motivated to strive for a state of wholeness or optimal functioning and she is quite a perfectionist!

Gray can easily become overly identified or involved with the task she performs, with her work, or with her own health and "growth process".

She is direct, energetic, sometimes aggressive and combative. Coleen Gray often feels that she needs to fight to get what she wants, and she tends to have a "me-first" attitude that angers or irritates others. She is hasty, restless, impatient and sometimes reckless.

She is blessed with abundant optimism, self-confidence and cheerful generosity. Her good will and friendliness win her many allies. Coleen Gray also has grand visions and aspirations, and the desire to succeed in life in a big way. Coleen expects the best, and usually gets it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Ascendant in Taurus and Sun in Libra

Sun in Libra

Sun in 6th house

Sun Square Mars

Sun Conjunct Jupiter