John Payne
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for John Payne only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Payne.

John has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. John Payne has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for John Payne to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. John Payne has a great deal of emotional depth.

John Payne often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Payne thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. John is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. John Payne has good psychological insight into others.

Payne relates to others on an emotional level, because he feels his emotions so strongly yourself. He is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when he is together with another person.

In love relationships, John Payne is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. John enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. John Payne responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

John is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, John Payne feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

John Payne has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well being. It is rare for John to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Payne. Artistic creations and projects are another way for John Payne to channel his passion.

Intimacy does not come easily to John Payne and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Payne does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. John Payne needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

John Payne has a good understanding of his own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Payne because of his gentle, kind and friendly manner and he may feel especially drawn to young people.

His nature is harmonious and John radiates happiness so that everyone around him will be in good spirits. His taste is likely to be elegant and he has a strong desire to surround himself with beauty. John Payne may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition N. Node/MC

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury

Venus Opposition Moon/Jupiter