approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Coleen's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Coleen Gray comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Coleen Gray - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Coleen Gray" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Coleen a little better. This page describes the disguise Gray wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Coleen Gray has a sensible and realistic outlook on life and her two feet are always planted firmly on the ground (though she may, on occasion, have her head in the clouds). Others often see Gray as a rock of strength, solid, reliable, dependable, and constant. She is, in fact, amazingly consistent for she possesses great powers of endurance and does not like to make changes or adjustments to her regular routine. Coleen does things deliberately and methodically and does not easily accommodate the unexpected. Though she has a gentle, even soft, appearance, Coleen Gray is enormously strong-willed and stubborn. She follows her own pace and refuses to be rushed or pushed into anything before she feels sure about it. Gray can be coaxed and persuaded by charm, beauty, love or affection - but never forced. She will not fight either, but simply stubbornly resist any attempt at being coerced into doing something she does not want to do.
When Gray has a purpose, she is extremely fixed, immovable, and bullheaded about it. Her obstinacy is often infuriating to others, especially since it takes much provocation to make her flare up or respond to their anger. Coleen Gray appears calm, unruffled, and unemotional most of the time, but behind her easygoing and peaceable appearance there lies great strength. When it comes to a contest of wills, Coleen often wins simply due to her relentless persistence and her ability to outlast just about anyone. Another reason for her reluctance to make changes is her very strong need for security. Coleen is most comfortable in stable, relatively unchanging conditions and she also has a strong desire for tangible security - a home of her own, money in the bank, job security, etc. The flip side of Gray's hankering for permanence is that she easily gets caught up in a rut and will stay in a familiar situation (e.g. job, marriage) long after it has lost its vitality and interest.
Coleen Gray has a keen appreciation of the natural world and she derives great joy from the down-to-earth comforts of the physical world, with its myriad of delights. She is quite sensual in a very natural, wholesome way and she knows how to enjoy herself. Gray is appealing to the opposite sex in an earthy way. She is also a great lover of beauty and her tastes are basically conventional or classic - not modern.
Gray draws much of her energy and sense of self from her relationships with others. She is inextricably connected with the significant others in her life; Coleen Gray may feel at a loss without them, even if she appears to be the powerful or dominant person in the relationship. Coleen appears self-assured - as long as she is secure in the important relationships in her life.
The way Coleen Gray comes across to others, particularly at first impression, tends to conceal certain important facets of her character. Specifically, what gives Coleen pleasure, how she likes to give and receive affection, and what she seeks in friendship or love relationships are not at all apparent based on Gray's outward demeanor. Coleen Gray seems to send mixed signals, and this can create a bit of confusion for the people who are interested in getting close to her or knowing her on more than a superficial level.
Coleen Gray has a kind and loving nature and she radiates friendliness and warmth wherever she goes. Because of her obliging and cordial manner, Gray is likely to have many harmonious relationships with others.
Coleen Gray seems to float between the world of illusion and reality and prefers to live in the former. Somewhat insecure and uncertain, she may try to avoid responsibility. Her ideas tend to be a bit strange and Coleen Gray should guard against pursuing the wrong objectives.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Opposition Asc.
Venus Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Opposition Venus/N. Node
Asc. Opposition Neptune/MC