Johnny Carson
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely let others know that he needs help and support. Johnny Carson denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and will tell himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Johnny Carson needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Johnny Carson also needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play sometimes.

Johnny Carson often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Carson thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Johnny is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Johnny Carson has good psychological insight into others.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Johnny Carson tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Johnny Carson becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he does not have enough vigorous physical activities or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Johnny Carson also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances that. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

He is tolerant and forgiving, always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Johnny Carson expects the best from people and draws it out of them, and he enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of his emotional generosity, his life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

Although Carson gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure which enables Johnny Carson to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

There is another side to Johnny Carson as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Johnny Carson and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Johnny Carson is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.

His intimate relationships and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged, and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Johnny Carson that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and his neediness often drives others away. When Johnny Carson does let himself feel close to another human being, painful long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as well perhaps grief at the losses he suffered, or anger at the neglect or hurt Carson endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal those old issues. Carson will do a lot of clearing and cleansing, if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Johnny Carson will simply have a tumultuous, passionate, and stormy emotional life.

Johnny Carson responds to his environment in a highly emotional way and encounters with other people can get him excited easily. His mood tends to change quickly, though, depending on the response Johnny receives from others.

In love relationships, Johnny Carson seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun-loving, playful, and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people, making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant place appeals to Johnny, and he is also attracted to foreigners or someone with a totally different background than his. Johnny Carson supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants relationships with a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Johnny that he has a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical relationships. Johnny Carson is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

For Johnny Carson, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Johnny values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Johnny Carson needs to beware of.

Johnny Carson has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to his well-being. It is rare for Johnny to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Carson. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Johnny Carson to channel his passion.

He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Johnny Carson to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Carson may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Johnny Carson will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

He may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and he seems to lack confidence in himself and could have trouble giving of his. Johnny Carson tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if he lets anyone come too close.

Johnny Carson has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, he has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. His outgoing personality puts others at ease and Carson tends to discuss love and beauty with them.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Conjunct Uranus/Asc.

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Conjunct Moon/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter