challenges and difficulties
Abrahams doubts his own intelligence and mental capacities, and he may work very hard at studies in order to compensate for this. Jim is often overly serious and disinterested in light or superficial conversation. Spontaneous communication, social give-and-take, and making small talk are likely to be difficult for him.
Jim Abrahams takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Abrahams a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Jim Abrahams and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Abrahams will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Because of his inner reserve and basic shyness, Jim Abrahams appears to lack the ability to adapt and is a bit inhibited when dealing with other people. His approach is somewhat serious and it is difficult for Jim to face the public.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jim Abrahams instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jim Abrahams needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Jim Abrahams' path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Abrahams' instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Jim Abrahams is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Jim should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Jim Abrahams can offer the world at large.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Jim Abrahams has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Abrahams will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Jim Abrahams in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Abrahams, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Jim Abrahams should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems he faces. It is in Abrahams' best interest to act on his own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for him. Jim Abrahams needs to assert himself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Jim needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick himself up, and go! He also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Jim Abrahams' path to wholeness involves confronting his dark and hidden recesses, bringing them out into the open, and transforming himself in the process. Healing abilities develop as a result of Abrahams' willingness to experience and transform deep emotions such as grief, anger, and pain. Furthermore, bringing light to the darkness and pain in the world without becoming overwhelmed by it is a significant challenge for Jim.
Jim Abrahams has a strong desire to break records and set an example for others through his own achievements. Jim tends to spur others on to improve results and his relationships with others serve to better conditions.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Gemini
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/N. Node
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars
N. Node Conjunct Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Pluto