Jim Abrahams
in Relationships

Open and generous, Jim Abrahams enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Abrahams rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Jim always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Jim Abrahams often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Abrahams, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Jim Abrahams to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Jim's aspirations and ideals. Jim Abrahams also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Jim Abrahams has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Jim sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Jim Abrahams is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Jim wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Jim Abrahams tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Jim feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Jim Abrahams also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Abrahams to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Jim Abrahams may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

Although Abrahams gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Jim Abrahams to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Jim Abrahams either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Jim Abrahams tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Abrahams' relationships with his mother, will determine whether Jim Abrahams will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

He is very compassionate and loves to share his feelings with others. Jim Abrahams is always in search for new relationships and enjoy working together with others in meetings, clubs or associations.

In love relationships, Jim Abrahams is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Jim enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Jim Abrahams responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Jim Abrahams loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Abrahams needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner and he wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to his beloved. Jim Abrahams also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.

Jim Abrahams experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Jim Abrahams has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Jim Abrahams can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Jim Abrahams tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Opposition Sun/N. Node

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 5th house

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Opposition Neptune/Asc.