Imelda Chiappa
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Imelda Chiappa denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Imelda Chiappa needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Imelda Chiappa also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Chiappa gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Imelda Chiappa makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Imelda Chiappa needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.

Imelda Chiappa tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Imelda to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Imelda Chiappa may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

Her emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Chiappa may feel inhibited when she is with others. Imelda Chiappa is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Imelda Chiappa enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Imelda wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Chiappa is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Imelda Chiappa is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Imelda uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Imelda Chiappa does.

Imelda Chiappa shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Imelda's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Imelda Chiappa also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Imelda likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 11th house

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Aries

Venus in 1st house

Venus Square Jupiter