David O. Selznick
in Relationships

David does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. David O. Selznick would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

David O. Selznick avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Selznick. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Selznick gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. David O. Selznick makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. David O. Selznick needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

Selznick can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so David O. Selznick puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Selznick may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. David O. Selznick might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge he faces.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. David O. Selznick often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. David O. Selznick is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". David O. Selznick enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. David wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

David is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, David O. Selznick feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

David O. Selznick has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though David frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Selznick can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Selznick's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

His strong enthusiasm for life affects everyone around him. David O. Selznick has a sense of well-being, a harmonious sex-life and he is likely to enjoy healthy and affectionate love relationships. David O. Selznick also has a lot of creative ideas and could do well with some kind of craft projects.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Conjunct Sun/Jupiter