challenges and difficulties
DeHaven both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable to others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting them get to know her intimately does not come easily to Gloria, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Gloria DeHaven is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for DeHaven.
Her attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Gloria DeHaven may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to her. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Gloria may tenaciously cling to her grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
Her overall outlook on life is serious, and Gloria DeHaven may feel that life or God will punish her if she does not watch her step!
She is likely to find it hard to make decisions, looking forward to the future with great enthusiasm on the one hand, but afraid of misjudgments on the other. Never quite sure about anything, Gloria DeHaven may periodically withdraw from situations and people.
She is inclined to be rather serious and withdrawn. As she feels very uncomfortable in the presence of others, Gloria DeHaven shies away from social contacts and prefers to be by herself.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Gloria DeHaven instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Gloria DeHaven needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Gloria DeHaven's path lies in her development as an individual, the discovery of her own strengths and joys, the capacity to express her uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though DeHaven's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Gloria DeHaven is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, she may believe that striving to do her personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Gloria should let go of this notion. Finding her own center and doing what gives her delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Gloria DeHaven can offer the world at large.
It is in her work and her relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into DeHaven's work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
The following are specific activities that will support Gloria DeHaven in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to DeHaven, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Gloria DeHaven should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put herself "out there", be seen and shine. Gloria needs to be willing to take on a leading role. She needs to be a hero - a protagonist in her own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities she possesses. Doing creative work that she is proud of - anything that comes from DeHaven's heart and bears the stamp of DeHaven's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than she is a way for Gloria DeHaven to grow and become more whole herself.
DeHaven considers the ability to think and speak convincingly as the most powerful instrument one can possess. She always strives for intellectual control in her environment and tends to dominate her relationships. Gloria DeHaven has a strong desire to be the spokesman in her community.
DeHaven makes a big impression on everyone she meets and has the ability to attract many people. Others find Gloria DeHaven very fascinating and she is likely to see herself as their model in groups or associations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 9th house
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Saturn Opposition N. Node/Asc.
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Pluto