Van Johnson
in Relationships
Van Johnson responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Van Johnson often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Van Johnson must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Charles' need for times of withdrawal.
Van Johnson is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Van Johnson takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Van Johnson gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Van Johnson makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Van Johnson needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.
He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Van Johnson tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Van Johnson becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.
Although Van Johnson gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Van Johnson to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Van Johnson was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Van Johnson feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Charles' emotional well-being.
His thinking is dictated by his feelings and Van Johnson may rely on his intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. His advice may often be sought and heeded, because Van Johnson seems to know and understand what motivates others.
Van Johnson has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Charles looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Van Johnson must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.
Sensitive and sentimental, Van Johnson is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Van Johnson to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Van Johnson seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Charles likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Van Johnson is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Van Johnson thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Van Johnson puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Van Johnson and he is not happy without a love partner. Van Johnson can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Van Johnson to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Charles becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Van Johnson really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Charles' closest relationships.
He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Van Johnson is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 11th house
Moon Square Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Conjunct Mercury/MC
Moon Conjunct Venus/Neptune
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Pluto
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