approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Frank's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Frank Sinatra comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Frank Sinatra - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Frank Sinatra" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Frank a little better. This page describes the disguise Sinatra wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Frank Sinatra will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Frank has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Frank Sinatra very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Sinatra is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Frank Sinatra will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Sinatra's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Frank Sinatra appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Sinatra is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Frank possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Frank Sinatra - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Frank Sinatra does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Frank.
Others see Frank Sinatra as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Sinatra shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Frank Sinatra usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Frank Sinatra is extremely sensitive to all of the incoming impressions and energies around him, and at times he can be overcome or dominated by more forceful personalities. Learning to establish clear boundaries is important for him, as Frank Sinatra tends to become enmeshed emotionally and/or psychically with whomever he is with. He may have the chameleon's trait of seeming to become the people or person he is with the most.
There is a certain intensity, charisma, or compelling attractiveness about Frank Sinatra that may have little to do with his physical features. It is energy, a subtle sexuality that he emanates. Also, Sinatra tends to do everything wholeheartedly and with passion, which is quite fascinating to other people. His instincts and psychological perceptions about others are quite incisive.
He is assertive and bold. Frank Sinatra is willing to be the first person to speak up and make his position known, and to strike out on his own if necessary. Frank generally gets along better with men than with women because his approach is quite direct and sometimes tactless and insensitive as well. He can be a bit too forceful. However, Frank Sinatra's boldness is his calling card, and most people feels that he can at least be trusted to be honest with them.
At times Frank Sinatra may feels that he is all alone in the world and that other people only cause difficulties for him. Constantly bounced to and fro by others, Frank has a strong desire to free himself from his stressful surroundings.
Frank Sinatra tends to be somewhat inhibited and does not want to attract attention to him. He is likely to think that other people are more important than he is and prefers to live in seclusion.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Neptune Square Asc.
Pluto Trine Asc.
Mars Sextile Asc.
Asc. Opposition Saturn/Uranus
Asc. Opposition Saturn/N. Node