She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Sheila E rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Sheila Escovedo's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Sheila Escovedo may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Sheila E difficult to live with. Sheila E needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Sheila Escovedo depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Sheila E's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Sheila E may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Sheila E tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Sheila E to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Sheila E may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Sheila E seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Sheila E has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Sheila Escovedo can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Sheila E values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Sheila E desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Sheila Escovedo, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Sheila E appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Sheila E often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Sheila E. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Sheila E may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Sheila E - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Sheila E has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Sheila E frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Sheila Escovedo can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Sheila Escovedo's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Sheila E to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Sheila Escovedo may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Sheila E will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 7th house
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto