Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Pamela Harriman has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Pamela Harriman is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Harriman for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Harriman's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Harriman. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
Pamela Harriman has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Pamela sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Pamela Harriman is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she comes across. Pamela wears her heart on her sleeves and cannot hide her emotions.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Pamela Harriman gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Pamela Harriman may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Pamela feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Pamela Harriman idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Harriman is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Pamela Harriman is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Pamela uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Pamela Harriman does.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Pamela Harriman and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Pamela allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Pamela Harriman, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
When it comes to love relationships, Harriman is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Pamela Harriman has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Pamela acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Pamela Harriman falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Pamela to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Harriman's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Pamela Harriman, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.
Pamela Harriman loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Harriman may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Pamela has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with her environment. Charming and friendly, she is on good terms with most of the people in her sphere. Her friends and associates mean a lot to Pamela Harriman and her relationships are positive and loving.
She makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of her, which could cause Pamela Harriman to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to Harriman, and she is inclined to change her ways just for the sake of love relationships.
Pamela Harriman finds it easy to demonstrate her love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Harriman tends to reveal her most personal feelings to people in her intimate circle of friends.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 1st house
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 1st house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Trine Pluto
Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Moon/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.