challenges and difficulties
Lee fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, CoCo Lee may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for CoCo.
Her childhood or her relationships with her parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent CoCo from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. CoCo Lee felt deprived in some manner, whether or not she actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of her needs and feelings may typify her early life, at least as Lee remembers it. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, CoCo Lee needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help CoCo accomplish this.
Her disposition is somewhat melancholic and CoCo Lee could have a rather pessimistic outlook. CoCo has an inner need to be alone and to deeply meditate on her thoughts. CoCo Lee takes life seriously and may have been taught early on to learn from her mistakes.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which CoCo Lee instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction CoCo Lee needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
She is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on her path, but when under stress CoCo Lee becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what she has, she is apt to ignore the subtle signals she receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
CoCo Lee needs to learn the limits of her ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for her. Lee also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward her appetites and desires, as CoCo Lee tends to overindulge and/or deny herself excessively.
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for CoCo Lee to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. CoCo Lee has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
Lee is a good team worker and has the ability to lead others. Her relationships and associations with others tend to be harmonious and cooperative. CoCo Lee may also have a very industrious family and she tends to be strongly tied to them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Opposition Mercury/MC
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Mars/Asc.