Andy Kaufman
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Andy Kaufman rarely expresses those feelings openly and freely. Very often Kaufman's love for someone will be expressed by trying to help them, doing something tangible to benefit them, or serving them in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection, or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Kaufman can therefore seem rather cool and aloof, much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Andy difficult to live with. Andy Kaufman needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Andy Kaufman a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Andy's past are especially dear to him.

Andy Kaufman may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Andy Kaufman feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved, and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.

Andy Kaufman tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Andy feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Andy Kaufman also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Kaufman to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Andy Kaufman may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Andy Kaufman also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances that. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

He is easygoing, agreeable, and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin again on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he overdoes sometimes his generosity. Andy Kaufman often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", and so becomes lazy and lackadaisical.

Although Kaufman gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure which enables Andy Kaufman to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

There is another side to Andy Kaufman as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Andy Kaufman was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, even when Andy Kaufman is with people, he feels lonely or isolated. Learning to appreciate his own company and to find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Andy's emotional well-being.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Andy Kaufman cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone, but one would never know it from Kaufman's reserved and seemingly detached appearance. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Andy at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Andy Kaufman is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Andy Kaufman may be attracted to persons older than him, someone who is emotionally mature and reliable and who can provide the security Andy desires.

Andy Kaufman loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Kaufman needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner, and he wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to his beloved. Andy Kaufman also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.

Loyalty, fidelity, and security are very important to Andy Kaufman in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Kaufman is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than their appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Andy Kaufman at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

He is very affectionate in his relationships and tends to form deep attachments with other people. Andy Kaufman may also enjoy contacts with the arts and may join associations that are connected with artistic events or cultural exchanges.

He is considerate and compassionate and has an innate understanding of the wants and needs of people in general. Andy Kaufman probably will have many pleasant and friendly relationships and his attachment to others is likely to be very deep.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Conjunct Find Saturn

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 5th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus Opposition Moon/N. Node

Venus Opposition Moon/MC