approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of CoCo's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way CoCo Lee comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner CoCo Lee - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner CoCo Lee" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know CoCo a little better. This page describes the disguise Lee wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
CoCo Lee meets life head on and throws herself into new experiences with zest and enthusiasm. She is direct, straightforward, assertive, and usually completely aboveboard in all her dealings. Candid and incapable of guile, insincerity or phoniness, CoCo projects a confident and sometimes arrogant façade to others. She often lacks tact and sensitivity, and can be completely oblivious to others' needs, and inadvertently selfish. Lee is self-reliant and does not depend upon social approval and reinforcement as much as other people do. She likes to be original and does not mind doing it alone. CoCo Lee may feel that she does not fit into groups very well and that she does not naturally blend in and cooperate with others. She likes to be either a leader or a loner.
Lee is a doer and thrives on freedom, challenge, and activity. She tends to think in clear, black and white terms, and to be somewhat simplistic in her outlook, which enables CoCo to act in a very decisive and self-assured manner. When inspired by an idea, CoCo Lee feels such a sense of urgency and excitement about it that she will often forge ahead and try to implement it in a rather bold but poorly planned and crudely executed way. Patience and careful attention to details are not Lee's forte. However, she never accepts defeat and will experience brilliant and unprecedented successes and discoveries, as well as painful failures. To CoCo Lee it is far better to make mistakes than to play it safe and never try.
She is scornful of what she sees as weakness or passivity in others and also of the human tendency to imitate and follow. CoCo Lee is not a follower. Others see CoCo as a strong individual and perhaps brash and brazen as well. Lee presents a strong front to the world and generally does not allow others to see her vulnerable or insecure side.
Despite the fact that her core self is quite a bit different from the face the world generally sees, CoCo Lee has a strong desire to be seen and recognized, to be acknowledged, and to have a significant influence on people in her environment. She may do remarkable things in order to be noticed. However, CoCo Lee often does not get the full recognition she wishes for.
Her emotional responses, feelings, and prejudices come across to others quite clearly and CoCo Lee could be seen as a rather moody, inconsistent creature. On the other hand, she is not impersonal or removed, so people are drawn to confide in her. At times Lee may wish she was not so easy to read.
CoCo Lee appears contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. She watches her step, and frequently withdraws if her environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Lee may seem much more conservative than she actually is. CoCo fears making mistakes in social situations, and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As she matures, CoCo Lee is likely to grow in confidence, because she will learn to depend more on her own evaluation of herself.
CoCo Lee feels good about herself and enjoys good relationships with her friends and neighbors. She exchanges ideas with them in a very relaxed and open manner, always willing to learn more about herself, the world and other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Square Asc.
Moon Square Asc.
Saturn Square Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Sun/Moon