Bruce Lee
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Bruce Lee trusts and opens himself to very few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Lee.

Bruce has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Bruce Lee has a nasty habit of holding on to past hurts, resentments, and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Bruce Lee to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Bruce Lee has a great deal of emotional depth.

Lee gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Bruce Lee makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Bruce Lee needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Bruce Lee feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Bruce may not realize how competitive he is.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Bruce Lee also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances that. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

Gregarious and fun-loving, he is always out to have a good time. Bruce Lee tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo; even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Bruce Lee to say no, especially when his emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, he is apt to be very free both with money and with affection.

Although Lee gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure which enables Bruce Lee to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

There is another side to Bruce Lee as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold, or separated from loved ones can make Bruce Lee either extremely cautious about building close relationships or hold tightly to whoever gives him any warmth or security. Bruce Lee tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and his needs for nurturing and security, perhaps feeling they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others, and to nurture himself is important for Lee. His earliest years, especially his relationships with his mother, will determine whether Lee will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

His thinking and acting are strongly influenced by his feelings. Bruce has great mental energy, is somewhat restless, curious and impatient, and at times he may need to slow down. Bruce Lee loves debate and argument and also has good writing ability.

In love relationships, Bruce Lee desires a deep, intense, passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Bruce "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of any threat to that union. Lee can be very demanding with his love partner. Bruce Lee tends to be somewhat suspicious of even platonic, friendly relationships his partner has. If he is ever betrayed, Bruce Lee is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Lee is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Bruce Lee thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Bruce Lee is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Bruce Lee pursues them very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Doing creative work or artistic work can also satisfy the very strong desire for love and beauty that Bruce feels.

Bruce Lee experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Bruce has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles, or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. Positively, Bruce Lee can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Lee's constitution tends to be on the weak side and he may tire easily. In love relationships he could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Bruce Lee could also have questionable romances that leave Bruce disappointed.

Bruce Lee tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 11th house

Moon Conjunct Find Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Conjunct Find Mercury/Mars

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.