Vera Fisher
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Vera Fisher only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Fisher.

Vera has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Vera Fisher has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Vera Fisher to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Vera Fisher has a great deal of emotional depth.

Fisher depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Vera's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Vera Fisher may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Vera Fisher craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Fisher also loves to feel free and unfettered.

Vera has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Vera Fisher has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Vera Fisher undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Vera Fisher possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Vera Fisher will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Vera does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Vera Fisher wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Vera Fisher appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

When she cares about someone, Vera Fisher likes to serve them by doing small thoughtful favors, helping them, or doing something tangible to show her affection.

Vera Fisher has also considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Vera is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in some way.

Intimacy does not come easily to Vera Fisher and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Fisher does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Vera Fisher needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Vera Fisher yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Fisher frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Vera Fisher does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Vera Fisher is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.

She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Vera Fisher should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Trine Uranus

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Libra

Venus in 6th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Neptune

Venus Sextile Pluto