Bonnie Lee Bakley approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Bonnie Lee's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Bonnie Lee Bakley comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Bonnie Lee Bakley - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Bonnie Lee Bakley" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Bonnie Lee a little better. This page describes the disguise Bakley wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Cautious, prudent, and rather self-contained, she is a person who approaches life realistically and who is not inclined to take foolish chances or get carried away by the overly optimistic or idealistic schemes of starry-eyed dreamers. In fact, Bonnie Lee Bakley frequently has a jaundiced view of such things. She is rather worldly-wise at a fairly young age, even somewhat of a cynic. Often the world does not seem like a safe, friendly place to Bakley, and she tends to approach life in a guarded, conservative manner. She is generally calculated and careful, and is rarely spontaneous, fluid, open, and childlike.
She is pragmatic, shrewd, and an excellent strategist, carefully planning her moves for maximum effectiveness and advantage. She is willing to work long and persistently for what she wants and she often does things the hard way. Bonnie Lee does not expect others to take care of her and sometimes refuses or simply does not seek any outside help. She is often very ambitious, but quietly so. There is nothing flamboyant or flashy about her approach. She is very responsible, conscientious, and concerned with her duties to others and how she comes across socially - her "rank" so to speak.
To others Bonnie Lee Bakley seems mature, serious, quiet, reflective, and emotionally detached. Bonnie Lee dislikes sloppy sentimentality and will not openly display her feelings, especially the more tender ones. Bakley likes to always appear poised and in control; and she hates to show any weakness, vulnerability, or chinks in her armor.
Bonnie Lee Bakley respects tradition and the time-honored way of doing things, and she feels that there is much to be gained from studying history and also by learning from older, more experienced people. A wise mentor or father is often Bakley's guide in life, and she in turn develops a great deal of hard-earned wisdom, which she likes to impart to younger people.
Bonnie Lee Bakley has a stern, authoritarian, no-nonsense aspect to her personality. She expects much from herself and may not give herself enough leeway to experiment and make mistakes.
She also tends to be rather close-fisted, to save and conserve her money and resources rather than spending or enjoying them. Bonnie Lee Bakley spends money on things of quality and of lasting value, things which are good investments, but not frivolous, temporary pleasures. There is a bit of the ascetic in her. Bonnie Lee exercises great self-discipline and self-control and she can "do without" very well. Her tastes are generally understated and simple.
Though she may have other, more colorful and imaginative sides, the face Bakley shows the world is modest and rather conservative.
The image that Bonnie Lee Bakley projects to the world and the person she really is inside, are considerably different. So much so that at times Bonnie Lee may feel that people do not see or know the real her. They respond to the face they see, and the initial impression Bakley makes may actually be misleading. Within her, also, there is much complexity and tension, and Bonnie Lee Bakley often feels that she needs to change herself in significant ways or that she continually holds back essential aspects of hers.
Bonnie Lee Bakley has a radiant, winning personality and others see her as a person used to achieving success. Broadminded, Bakley is willing to give others the benefit of the doubt. She is helpful and tolerant as long as her moral and ethical standards are respected.
She is charming and friendly to everyone, but may prefer more superficial and frequently changing relationships with people rather than steady and lasting friendships. Some of her meetings with others could come about suddenly.
Bonnie Lee Bakley believes in good fellowship or comradeship and cultivates an active social life. Her relationships tend to be very harmonious and her participation in group efforts is carried out with vigorous and energetic cooperation.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Capricorn Rising
Sun Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Opposition Sun/Jupiter
Asc. Opposition Venus/Uranus
Asc. Conjunct Mars/N. Node
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