Robert Blake
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Robert Blake rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Blake's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Blake may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Robert difficult to live with. Robert Blake needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

Blake gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Robert Blake makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Robert Blake needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Blake can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Robert Blake puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Blake may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Robert Blake might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Robert Blake often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Robert Blake is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Robert Blake has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and his feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. Robert goes out of his way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.

In love relationships, Robert Blake desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Robert "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Blake can be very demanding of his love partner. Robert Blake tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Robert Blake is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Blake is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Robert Blake is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Robert uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Robert Blake does.

Robert has great self-discipline and knows exactly what he can demand of himself. His love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and Robert Blake may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 11th house

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/MC

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 1st house

Venus Opposition Saturn/Pluto