Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Dean Martin denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Dean Martin needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Dean Martin also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Martin gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Dean Martin makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Dean Martin needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Dean Martin cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Martin's motto.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Dean Martin also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Dean Martin often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Dean Martin seems to have a quick temper, is somewhat irritable and tends to get upset easily. Dean Martin may also have frequent changes of mood; in fact, his feelings could change from one minute to the next. He also tends to act without sufficient deliberation.
In a love relationship, Dean Martin is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Dean likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Dean Martin becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Dean Martin's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Dean Martin needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Martin finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Dean Martin and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Dean shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Martin happy.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Dean Martin is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Dean and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Martin's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Dean has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Martin experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Dean Martin is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.
Dean Martin has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but he may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Dean tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Dean Martin has a propensity for clandestine and secret love affairs and tends to keep his relationships hidden. Dean could find himself in some peculiar relationships where he or his partner could be reluctant to make an external commitment.
His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Dean Martin loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 11th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Uranus/MC
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 4th house
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Conjunct Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mars/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune