approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Wilmer's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Wilmer Valderrama comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Wilmer Valderrama - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Wilmer Valderrama" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Wilmer a little better. This page describes the disguise Valderrama wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Wilmer Valderrama has a sensible and realistic outlook on life and his two feet are always planted firmly on the ground (though he may, on occasion, have his head in the clouds). Others often see Valderrama as a rock of strength, solid, reliable, dependable, and constant. He is, in fact, amazingly consistent for he possesses great powers of endurance and does not like to make changes or adjustments to his regular routine. Wilmer does things deliberately and methodically and does not easily accommodate the unexpected. Though he has a gentle, even soft, appearance, Wilmer Valderrama is enormously strong-willed and stubborn. He follows his own pace and refuses to be rushed or pushed into anything before he feels sure about it. Valderrama can be coaxed and persuaded by charm, beauty, love or affection - but never forced. He will not fight either, but simply stubbornly resist any attempt at being coerced into doing something he does not want to do.
When Valderrama has a purpose, he is extremely fixed, immovable, and bullheaded about it. His obstinacy is often infuriating to others, especially since it takes much provocation to make him flare up or respond to their anger. Wilmer Valderrama appears calm, unruffled, and unemotional most of the time, but behind his easygoing and peaceable appearance there lies great strength. When it comes to a contest of wills, Wilmer often wins simply due to his relentless persistence and his ability to outlast just about anyone. Another reason for his reluctance to make changes is his very strong need for security. Wilmer is most comfortable in stable, relatively unchanging conditions and he also has a strong desire for tangible security - a home of his own, money in the bank, job security, etc. The flip side of Valderrama's hankering for permanence is that he easily gets caught up in a rut and will stay in a familiar situation (e.g. job, marriage) long after it has lost its vitality and interest.
Wilmer Valderrama has a keen appreciation of the natural world and he derives great joy from the down-to-earth comforts of the physical world, with its myriad of delights. He is quite sensual in a very natural, wholesome way and he knows how to enjoy himself. Valderrama is appealing to the opposite sex in an earthy way. He is also a great lover of beauty and his tastes are basically conventional or classic - not modern.
Despite the fact that his core self is quite distinct from the face the world generally sees, Wilmer Valderrama has a strong desire to be seen and recognized, to be acknowledged, and to have a significant impact on people in his environment. He may do remarkable things in order to be noticed. However, Wilmer Valderrama often does not get the full recognition he yearns for.
He may come across as a bit scattered, nervous or restless, as if unable to sit still. Wilmer Valderrama seems alert and quick, but sometimes a bit on edge. Wilmer tends to stay perpetually busy, and would find handiwork of some kind soothing.
He is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who Wilmer Valderrama is or what he wants - he is pretty much up front. Wilmer radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when he is at his best. He seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
Wilmer Valderrama has a sweet, appealing demeanor and seems instinctively to grasp the concept that "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar". His personal brand of charm is usually quite winning. Wilmer coaxes rather than coerces. However, if he does not get what he wants, Wilmer Valderrama is likely to resort to insincere flattery, wheedling, whining or pouting rather than stating directly what he needs, or doing it for himself. Valderrama seems to need others' approval first.
Wilmer Valderrama tends to lead a very harmonious life and live in peaceful surroundings. His emotions seem to play a big part in his relationships with others and Valderrama bases his relationships on inner understanding between people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Sun Square Asc.
Mercury Square Asc.
Mars Trine Asc.
Venus Sextile Asc.
Asc. Opposition MC/N. Node