Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Phil Collins trusts and opens himself to very few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Collins.
Phil has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Phil Collins has a nasty habit of holding on to past hurts, resentments, and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Phil Collins to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Phil Collins has a great deal of emotional depth.
Phil Collins has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Phil sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Phil Collins is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Phil cannot hide his emotions.
Phil Collins feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved, and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Phil Collins cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Collins' motto.
Phil has the ability to speak with his heart and soul and therefore to convince people. He is adaptable in both his thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In his work Phil Collins can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
Phil Collins has a magnetic personality, are unconventional, and a bit unpredictable. Phil loves to flirt and is likely to have sudden romantic relationships that do not always last. Phil Collins likes variety and always is seeking new experiences with people.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance, and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together, and having many friends of both sexes. Phil Collins values friendship very highly and is, in fact, more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Phil desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The roles of "husband" and "wife" in the traditional sense do not appeal to Collins, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Phil Collins appreciates relationships where his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Phil Collins and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Phil shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Collins happy.
Phil Collins is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Collins tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 1st house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Pluto
Moon Opposition Venus/Uranus
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 4th house
Venus Opposition Uranus/Neptune