Wilmer Valderrama responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Valderrama often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Wilmer Valderrama must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Wilmer's need for times of withdrawal.
Wilmer Valderrama is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Wilmer Valderrama takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Wilmer Valderrama often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Valderrama thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Wilmer is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Wilmer Valderrama has good psychological insight into others.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Wilmer Valderrama; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Wilmer Valderrama is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
In addition to Wilmer's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Wilmer Valderrama craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Valderrama rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Wilmer Valderrama craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Valderrama also loves to feel free and unfettered.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Wilmer Valderrama needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Valderrama. Wilmer Valderrama tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.
Wilmer has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Wilmer Valderrama has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Wilmer Valderrama undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Wilmer Valderrama gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Wilmer Valderrama may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Wilmer feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Wilmer Valderrama idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Valderrama is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Wilmer Valderrama thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Wilmer Valderrama simply does not feel alive without vibrant, passionate love relationships in his life, and if his romantic urges are frustrated or if his intimate relationships become too tame or mellow, Wilmer Valderrama will do something to stir up the flames. Wilmer Valderrama relates naturally to fighting, competition, tumultuous conflict, and fiery lovemaking. He may be more selfish and demanding than he realizes.
Wilmer Valderrama has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Wilmer frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Valderrama can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Valderrama's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
He may be caught in a conflict between caution and optimism frequently, resulting in restlessness and discontentment. In love relationships, Wilmer Valderrama could feel controlled, rejected or not accepted at times, and at other times experience great ease, happiness and content.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Square Pluto
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 11th house
Venus Opposition Mars
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Saturn