challenges and difficulties
Wesley has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Snipes.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Wesley from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Wesley Snipes feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Snipes remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Wesley Snipes needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Wesley accomplish this task.
Wesley Snipes strives and struggles a great deal with his ideals or spiritual aspirations. He may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or he may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, he can never quite divorce himself from his idealistic concerns.
Wesley Snipes tends to be his own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of himself and harshly criticizing or persecuting himself when he does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in his life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Wesley's belief that he must struggle alone.
He is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Wesley Snipes develops his power and inner strength. However, Wesley Snipes should not make life harder than it is. He must give himself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that he is only human.
Wesley may find it difficult to express himself, thereby feeling inhibited and lonely at times. He tends to isolate himself from others and his relationships come across as strained. Conditions in Wesley Snipes' parental home may be oppressive and strained.
Wesley Snipes has a serious outlook on life and a tendency to dwell on his own flaws as well as those of everyone else. Snipes may be rather reserved with people and may find it difficult to express himself, thereby leaving a more negative impression than he intended.
Because of his inner reserve and basic shyness, Wesley Snipes appears to lack the ability to adapt and is a bit inhibited when dealing with other people. His approach is somewhat serious and it is difficult for Wesley to face the public.
He prefers to work alone rather than with others. Content on his own, Snipes tends to become inhibited when he is with others, especially women. Wesley Snipes may feel that the effort required to be with others is too great and probably not even worth it.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Wesley Snipes instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Wesley Snipes needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Wesley Snipes' path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Snipes' instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Wesley Snipes is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Wesley should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Wesley Snipes can offer the world at large.
It is in his public life and career that Wesley Snipes is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Snipes' reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Wesley Snipes achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Wesley Snipes back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Wesley Snipes' rigid self-control overly restricts his ability to freely express himself or explore possibilities. He is excessively concerned with work, duty and security. He tends to be fearful, judgmental towards himself or others, and can feel alone and cut off from sources of nourishment outside himself. Wesley Snipes should try to learn to relax and recognize that not everything is Snipes' responsibility.
The following are specific activities that will support Wesley Snipes in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Snipes, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Wesley Snipes should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put himself "out there", be seen and shine. Wesley needs to be willing to take on a leading role. He needs to be a hero - a protagonist in his own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities he possesses. Doing creative work that he is proud of - anything that comes from Snipes' heart and bears the stamp of Snipes' individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than he is a way for Wesley Snipes to grow and become more whole himself.
Wesley Snipes should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. He needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with his family or a community that can support him and give him a sense of safety and belonging.
Wesley Snipes should develop his listening skills and deepen his understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Wesley Snipes has to learn to trust his own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. He needs to care for himself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Wesley Snipes' best interest to take all that is good and helpful from his past and use it in a new way. (If he is so inclined, Wesley may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts he has already developed).
Wesley Snipes has to learn to communicate and express himself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Wesley to study, learn skills and develop his intellectual interests and capacities. Snipes needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing his intellectual reasoning ability. Wesley Snipes should practice using his mind, his thinking skills and his ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for him.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Wesley Snipes to pursue.
Wesley has an inspiring, trustworthy and courteous manner, bringing lots of friends and acquaintances with similar interests into his life. His parental home is probably very harmonious and Wesley Snipes feels strongly connected with his family.
He is well mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Wesley Snipes is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Wesley feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Snipes always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. Wesley Snipes has a way of integrating the needs and feelings of others, while taking into consideration the proceedings of the association.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
Saturn Opposition Sun/Moon
Saturn Opposition Sun/Mercury
Saturn Opposition Sun/N. Node
Saturn Opposition Moon/N. Node
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Opposition Saturn
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Moon
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Moon
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Mercury