challenges and difficulties
Tanya Boyd has a penchant for order and precision, and an almost compulsive attention to detail. She is often hypercritical and can be such a demanding perfectionist that she discourages herself or others from even attempting something that will not be done exactly the way Boyd knows it should be done.
She frequently over analyzes or picks things apart mentally. Tanya Boyd may also be somewhat of a hypochondriac. Tanya must learn that she does not have to rationally understand everything in order for it to be valid, and also to relax her unnecessarily high or strict standards.
Tanya Boyd has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Tanya limits herself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in herself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Tanya Boyd difficult to get to know intimately, as Boyd tends to distance herself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
Basically shy, Tanya may become a bit inhibited when talking with other people. Tanya Boyd tends to withdraw from others and likes to live a humble, quiet life in seclusion. She may get involved with a group of a secretive nature, although Boyd is not generally one to join groups.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Tanya Boyd instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Tanya Boyd needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Boyd's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Tanya Boyd has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Tanya Boyd to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Tanya Boyd has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The following are specific activities that will support Tanya Boyd in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Boyd, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Tanya Boyd should develop faith and confidence both in herself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help her. She needs to expand her willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable her to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with her time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Tanya Boyd.
Tanya Boyd seems to have an innate sense of cosmic awareness and is likely to have strong psychical or metaphysical talents. She is inclined to join some parapsychology groups where she may share her unusual experiences with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Virgo
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Opposition Mercury/N. Node
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Pluto