challenges and difficulties
Stavros has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Niarchos.
Stavros Niarchos takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Niarchos a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Stavros Niarchos and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Niarchos will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Stavros Niarchos becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Niarchos is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Stavros Niarchos instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Stavros Niarchos needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Stavros Niarchos needs to take what he has learned (either through formal education or his own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Stavros' quality of life or that of persons in his world, is of little real value. Putting Niarchos' understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in his daily relationships, and in the multiple choices he makes every day, will enable Stavros Niarchos to really test his belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Stavros Niarchos is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Stavros Niarchos needs to cultivate his ability to live in the present!
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Stavros Niarchos has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Niarchos will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Stavros Niarchos in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Niarchos, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Stavros Niarchos has to learn to communicate and express himself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Stavros to study, learn skills and develop his intellectual interests and capacities. Niarchos needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing his intellectual reasoning ability. Stavros Niarchos should practice using his mind, his thinking skills and his ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for him.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Stavros Niarchos to pursue.
Niarchos is able to cooperate with people harmoniously, and others see him as a welcome comrade. Stavros likes to work hand-in-hand with everyone and has excellent teamwork ability.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Jupiter