approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Stavros' basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Stavros Niarchos comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Stavros Niarchos - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Stavros Niarchos" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Stavros a little better. This page describes the disguise Niarchos wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Stavros Niarchos will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Stavros has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Stavros Niarchos very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Niarchos is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Stavros Niarchos will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Niarchos' politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Stavros Niarchos appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Niarchos is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Stavros possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Stavros Niarchos - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Stavros Niarchos does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Stavros.
Others see Stavros Niarchos as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Niarchos shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Stavros Niarchos usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Stavros Niarchos seems like a loner or isolationist at times, and it may be difficult to get to know him or form close friendships with him. To others, Stavros may appear standoffish, as if he were judging them from afar.
Stavros Niarchos comes across as quirky, unusual, offbeat and "different". Sometimes he appears to provoke people and upset the status quo just by being himself. Niarchos tends to be restless, excitable and somewhat ungrounded or nervous as well.
Stavros Niarchos is extremely sensitive to all the impressions and energies around him and at times can be overcome or dominated by more forceful personalities. Learning to establish clear boundaries is important for him, as Stavros Niarchos tends to become enmeshed emotionally and/or psychically with whomever he is with. He may have the chameleon's trait of appearing to become the people or person he is with the most.
Bright, alert, quick of tongue and/or of movement, there is youthfulness about Stavros' manner and appearance regardless of his chronological age. Moreover, Stavros Niarchos also always appears busy and active, and somewhat restless. Niarchos needs mental stimulation from his environment, or he will rapidly get bored.
Stavros often comes across to others more abruptly or even antagonistically than necessary to achieve his aims. And naturally, if people perceive that he is trying to compete with them or run them over, some of them will strongly resist Stavros Niarchos and his objectives. Niarchos might be more successful if he tones himself down a bit and shows some consideration, without completely sacrificing his own needs and wants.
Others are attracted to Niarchos because of his light-hearted, cheerful and optimistic personality. Stavros Niarchos is very charming and is likely to give frequent compliments. He is very affectionate toward others and has a need to be in active relationships with people.
He is very sensitive to his surroundings and inclined to be easily influenced by others. Stavros Niarchos tends to avoid confrontations, discussions or arguments for fear that he cannot stand up to them.
Stavros Niarchos tends to get easily excited and may act a bit restless in the presence of other people. Always in motion, Niarchos comes across like a whirlwind and has a constant need for different and new experiences.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn Opposition Asc.
Uranus Square Asc.
Neptune Square Asc.
Mercury Trine Asc.
Mars Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Venus
Asc. Opposition Uranus/Neptune
Asc. Conjunct Uranus/MC