approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Rudy's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Rudy Vallée comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Rudy Vallée - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Rudy Vallée" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Rudy a little better. This page describes the disguise Vallée wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Rudy Vallée will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Rudy has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Rudy Vallée very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Vallée is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Rudy Vallée will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Vallée's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Rudy Vallée appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Vallée is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Rudy possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Rudy Vallée - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Rudy Vallée does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Rudy.
Others see Rudy Vallée as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Vallée shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Rudy Vallée usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
There is an air of universal sympathy, gentleness, and nonjudgmental acceptance about Rudy Vallée which draws people in need to him. Because he has a good deal of intuitive insight or psychic perceptiveness, Rudy is able to say or do just the right thing for them. Rudy Vallée needs to beware of fostering dependency in those people, however.
His emotional instincts, feelings, and intuition play a big part in the decisions Rudy Vallée makes and how he interacts with the world, and generally his feelings are quite accurate and helpful to him. Also, establishing emotional rapport with the people he meets on a day to day level is rather easy for Vallée. Rudy Vallée appears somewhat sympathetic and concerned, so that others are drawn to him, especially when they need guidance or help.
Rudy Vallée has a sweet, appealing demeanor and seems instinctively to grasp the concept that "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar". His personal brand of charm is usually quite winning. Rudy coax rather than coerce. However, if he does not get what he wants, Rudy Vallée is likely to resort to insincere flattery, wheedling, whining, or pouting rather than stating directly what he needs, or doing for himself. Vallée seems to need others' approval first.
Others are attracted to Vallée because of his light-hearted, cheerful and optimistic personality. Very charming, Rudy Vallée is likely to give frequent compliments. He is very affectionate toward others and has a need to be in active relationships with people.
Rudy Vallée believes in good fellowship or comradeship and cultivates an active social life. His relationships tend to be very harmonious and his participation in group efforts is carried out with vigorous and energetic cooperation.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Neptune Trine Asc.
Moon Sextile Asc.
Venus Sextile Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Moon/Venus
Asc. Conjunct Mars/N. Node