Guy Ballard responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Ballard often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Guy Ballard must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Guy's need for times of withdrawal.
Guy Ballard is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Guy Ballard takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Though he wants close relationships very much, Guy Ballard often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Ballard is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
Sensitive and sentimental, Guy Ballard is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Ballard to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Guy Ballard seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Guy likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Guy Ballard craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Guy loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Ballard.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Guy Ballard possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Guy may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. Guy Ballard may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Guy's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Guy Ballard is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Ballard is to being left out or unappreciated.
He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Guy Ballard rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Guy is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Ballard craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Guy Ballard needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.
Guy Ballard has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but he may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Guy tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Guy Ballard is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Ballard tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 8th house
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 8th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Neptune