Rudy Vallée
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Rudy Vallée denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Rudy Vallée needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Rudy Vallée also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Rudy Vallée often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Vallée thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Rudy is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Rudy Vallée has good psychological insight into others.

Rudy Vallée feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.

He is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Rudy Vallée expects, and draws out, the best from people and he enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of his emotional generosity, his life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Rudy Vallée flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Rudy Vallée feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Rudy Vallée to learn. Rudy Vallée should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Rudy has the ability to speak with his heart and soul and therefore to convince people. He is adaptable in both his thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In his work Rudy Vallée can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Rudy Vallée cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Rudy wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Rudy Vallée is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.

Rudy Vallée craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Vallée enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Rudy Vallée very happy. Rudy wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Rudy Vallée may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Vallée is a natural host or diplomat.

Rudy Vallée has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Vallée tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Rudy Vallée might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Rudy Vallée tends to make up his mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. His expectations about romance can be intense and Rudy is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about his loved ones.

Rudy Vallée tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Mercury/Pluto

Venus in Leo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars

Venus Conjunct Neptune/Asc.