Open and generous, R. Kelly enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Kelly rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Robert always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. R. Kelly often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Kelly, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For R. Kelly to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Robert's aspirations and ideals. R. Kelly also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Though he wants close relationships very much, R. Kelly often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Kelly is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
R. Kelly often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Kelly actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for R. Kelly to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and R. Kelly becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Kelly can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Robert's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. R. Kelly craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Kelly rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
R. Kelly craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for R. Kelly to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Kelly. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Kelly likes it that way.
Robert has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. R. Kelly has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. R. Kelly undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
R. Kelly has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to him. He is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and he loves to give and receive social invitations.
His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. R. Kelly could also feel lonely and depressed at times.
He is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and he tries to suppress the jealousy he may feel. R. Kelly may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making him a bit hard and unyielding in later life.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. R. Kelly values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Robert desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Kelly, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. R. Kelly appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make R. Kelly very happy. Robert wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. R. Kelly may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Kelly is a natural host or diplomat.
Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because R. Kelly cannot or will not hold onto it. R. Kelly has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Kelly's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Robert freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Kelly could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.
Kelly also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. R. Kelly just wants to have a good time.
Robert likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, R. Kelly seems to be real content and happy only when he is among other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 8th house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Square Uranus
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Opposition Jupiter/N. Node
Moon Opposition Saturn/Uranus
Moon Opposition Saturn/Pluto
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 10th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Opposition Mars/N. Node