Graham Chapman
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Graham Chapman has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Chapman is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Graham Chapman seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Chapman tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Graham's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Graham Chapman substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Graham has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Graham Chapman may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Chapman's ties to his mother are very strong and Graham also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
Graham has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Chapman craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Chapman and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Graham Chapman is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
In love relationships, Graham Chapman seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Graham, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Graham Chapman supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Graham that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Graham Chapman is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Graham Chapman often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Graham. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Graham Chapman may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Graham Chapman - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Graham Chapman to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Graham becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Graham Chapman really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Graham's closest relationships.
Graham Chapman has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Graham frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Chapman can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Chapman's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Graham Chapman tends to make up his mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. His expectations about romance can be intense and Graham is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about his loved ones.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 4th house
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars
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