approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Racquel's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Racquel Darrian comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Racquel Darrian - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Racquel Darrian" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Racquel a little better. This page describes the disguise Darrian wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Racquel Darrian will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Racquel has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Racquel Darrian very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Darrian is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Racquel Darrian will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Darrian's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Racquel Darrian appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Darrian is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Racquel possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Racquel Darrian - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Racquel Darrian does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Racquel.
Others see Racquel Darrian as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Darrian shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Racquel Darrian usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Racquel Darrian has a sweet, appealing demeanor and seems instinctively to grasp the concept that "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar". Her personal brand of charm is usually quite winning. Racquel coax rather than coerce. However, if she does not get what she wants, Racquel Darrian is likely to resort to insincere flattery, wheedling, whining, or pouting rather than stating directly what she needs, or doing for herself. Darrian seems to need others' approval first.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Venus Sextile Asc.