Randy Spears
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Randy Spears inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Randy wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Spears lavishes on those he cares about. Randy Spears has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Randy Spears hates emotional games and dishonesty.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Randy, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

Randy Spears frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

Spears identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Randy Spears feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Randy may not realize how competitive he is.

Although Spears gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Randy Spears to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Spears can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Randy Spears puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Spears may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Randy Spears might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

In addition to Randy's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Randy Spears craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Spears rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Randy has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Spears craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Spears and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Randy Spears is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Randy Spears feels a certain soul affinity with them. Randy has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.

Randy Spears tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.

Randy Spears seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Randy likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.

In love relationships, Randy Spears is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Randy enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Randy Spears responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Randy Spears craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Randy loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Spears.

Randy Spears tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Randy frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Randy Spears also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

It may be hard for Randy Spears to love someone and to express his love for them. There seems to be a wall built up between him and others and he seems very cool to them. His disposition is very reserved and withdrawn, making it difficult for people to approach him.

His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Randy Spears longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Spears tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 12th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Moon Conjunct Mars/N. Node

Moon Conjunct Uranus/Pluto

Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 8th house

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Opposition Mars/Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus