She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Paula Barbieri rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Barbieri's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Barbieri may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Paula difficult to live with. Paula Barbieri needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Paula Barbieri cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Paula Barbieri has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Paula takes risks on impulse or whim.
Paula Barbieri is in harmony with herself and the world around her and is guided by her instincts. The parental type, she would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Paula radiates harmony wherever she goes.
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Paula Barbieri cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Barbieri's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Paula at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Paula Barbieri is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Paula Barbieri may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Paula desires.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Paula Barbieri very happy. Paula wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Paula Barbieri may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Barbieri is a natural host or diplomat.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Paula Barbieri to be able to deeply respect her partner. Paula looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to her. Paula Barbieri is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.
When it comes to love relationships, Barbieri is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Paula Barbieri has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Paula acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
She is open and progressive in her attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way she expresses her love. Paula Barbieri is always willing to experiment and try anything new that her partner suggests, and she enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Paula and her partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Barbieri's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
Paula Barbieri has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Barbieri tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Paula Barbieri might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
Paula Barbieri loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Barbieri may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Her energy and initiative seem to be a bit weak and could frequently inhibit Paula's sex life. Her unrealistic ideals about relationships could lead to disillusionment, and Paula Barbieri may feel that real mortals are disappointing, and prefer her fantasies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 5th house
Moon Opposition Asc./MC
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Neptune