He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Val should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Kilmer often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Kilmer's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Val Kilmer insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Val does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Val Kilmer feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Val Kilmer has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Val sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Val Kilmer is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Val cannot hide his emotions.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Val does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Val Kilmer is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Powerful and complex emotions stir Val Kilmer, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Val does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Val Kilmer needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating, if Val Kilmer is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
In love relationships, Val Kilmer desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Val "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Kilmer can be very demanding of his love partner. Val Kilmer tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Val Kilmer is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Val Kilmer very happy. Val wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Val Kilmer may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Kilmer is a natural host or diplomat.
Val Kilmer has a propensity for clandestine and secret love affairs and tends to keep his relationships hidden. Val could find himself in some peculiar relationships where he or his partner could be reluctant to make an external commitment.
His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Val Kilmer loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 1st house
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Mars/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune