Nelly
motivation

Behind Cornell Haynes' rather cool, conservative, somewhat impersonal and businesslike demeanor (as described on the previous page), he is much more passionate and emotional. Nelly often covers his vulnerability with a facade of toughness or indifference.

Quiet, deep, emotionally complex and intensely private, he is not a person who is easy to get to know and understand. Nelly is extremely sensitive but disinclined to show it, and he allows only a special few into his inner world. Like a wary animal, he is cautious and mistrustful of those he does not know until "he sniffs them out". He is very, very instinctive and intuitive. Nelly usually has a strong, immediate gut reaction to people, even though he may be unable to clearly articulate why he feels as he does. His feelings and perceptions go deeper than words.

Nelly also has a powerful need for deep emotional relationships and he forms very intense love bonds and attachments. He is possessive and often jealous of anyone or anything that he perceives as a threat to his relationships with someone he loves. When Nelly commits himself to someone or something, he is wholeheartedly devoted and expects complete loyalty in return. Nelly merges with or "marries" the person he loves at a very deep level and therefore separations are extremely painful for him, and often stormy and nasty. When Cornell Haynes has been wounded, he is not inclined to turn the other cheek and will retaliate if at all possible. Certainly Nelly will never forget the injury and he often harbors grievances and resentments for a long, long time. Forgiveness does not come easily to him.

Whatever he does, Nelly does with passion and fervor, and he often goes to extremes. Cornell Haynes can be hot or cold, but never lukewarm about anything. Cornell Haynes can also be very narrow: either he is 100% involved in something or else it does not exist for him at all. Rarely is Nelly emotionally detached and objective. He definitely has a fanatical streak. He is also immensely strong-willed and his tenacity in pursuing his objectives often borders on being obsessive. Fierce pride, courage, and emotional strength are his in abundance.

Nelly loves mysteries and is deeply attracted to the hidden, dark, secret side of life. Nelly never takes things at face value and is always probing beneath the surface of people and situations to discover what is really going on. Nelly tends to be more of a cynic than an idealist.

His career, reputation, and public image are very important to Cornell Haynes. Nelly has a strong desire to be influential or make his mark on the world. The merely personal sphere does not satisfy him; his ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for his unique effort and gifts. Nelly may undervalue the personal or inner side of life.

Nelly is loving and well-loved by others, and has a strong need for relationships that offer kindness, friendship, and affection. His artistic and creative powers are also well developed and Nelly does everything in a harmonious, gracious, pleasing manner. Aesthetics are very important to Cornell Haynes, as well as his personal appearance and attractiveness.

However, while Nelly prefers harmony and accord, he also has a confrontational side.

He is assertive, energetic, active, courageous, and vital. Nelly has a very strong physical drive which expresses itself as sexuality and passion, a desire to compete with others, and a tendency to fight. Nelly has a victorious spirit and the will to win.

Nelly has big aspirations but he does not struggle or labor to achieve them. His self-confidence and inner harmony attract success and benefits to him in an almost magical way. His optimism and cheerful generosity also win Cornell Haynes many allies and successes in life.

Nelly tends to impose his will upon others in a rather ruthless way, but on the other hand he may also be imposed upon by others. Nelly feels a constant need to fight for leadership and has a great desire to become a public figure.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Ascendant in Capricorn and Sun in Scorpio

Sun in Scorpio

Sun in 10th house

Sun Conjunct Venus

Sun aspects Venus and Mars

Sun Conjunct Mars

Sun Trine Jupiter

Sun Conjunct Pluto/N. Node