Nelly
in Relationships

Nelly does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Nelly would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Nelly avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and he is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs plenty of mental stimulation and he feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and mental interests. Conversation is very important to Cornell Haynes. The strong, silent type of partner is not for him.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Nelly cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Nelly has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Nelly takes risks on impulse or whim.

His emotional needs are very important to Nelly and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Cornell Haynes will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.

He is likely to be noted for his good looks and good taste in clothes. Nelly is able to attract and influence others because he is so pleasant and so sincere in his approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Cornell Haynes also is strongly attached to his home and family.

Nelly is in harmony with himself and the world around him and is guided by his instincts. The parental type, he would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Nelly radiates harmony wherever he goes.

In love relationships, Nelly desires a deep, intense, passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Nelly "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of any threat to that union. Cornell Haynes can be very demanding with his love partner. Nelly tends to be somewhat suspicious of even platonic, friendly relationships his partner has. If he is ever betrayed, Nelly is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Nelly very happy. Nelly wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Nelly may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Cornell Haynes is a natural host or diplomat.

Nelly is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Nelly pursues them very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Doing creative work or artistic work can also satisfy the very strong desire for love and beauty that Nelly feels.

Nelly appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Nelly will rarely put himself out too much in order to do so. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.

Others are drawn to Cornell Haynes because of his affable, social and appealing disposition, and he is likely to have many pleasant and friendly relationships. Nelly also has strong artistic inclinations and may consider a creative field as a profession or hobby.

He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Nelly is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Nelly seems to have an unusual power of attraction to other people and frequently may associate with others whether they are good for him or not. Very compulsive in love relationships, Cornell Haynes could have a kind of tragic love union.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 5th house

Moon Opposition Sun/Asc.

Moon Opposition Venus/Asc.

Moon Opposition Asc./MC

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Trine Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Sun/MC

Venus Conjunct Neptune/Pluto

Venus Conjunct Pluto/N. Node