challenges and difficulties
Michael Paré has a critical, cynical attitude towards many religions and philosophies. Without realizing it, he prevents himself from appreciating new viewpoints and attitudes. Paré is more rigid and dogmatic than he realizes. His approach may also be too intellectual or moralistic. Michael Paré takes his own political beliefs and spiritual philosophy very seriously, worrying and fretting if he is not 100% clear about some ideology or theory.
Michael Paré has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Michael limits himself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in himself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Michael Paré difficult to get to know intimately, as Paré tends to distance himself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Michael Paré instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Michael Paré needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Michael stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Michael Paré has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Michael Paré feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Michael Paré calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Michael Paré needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in his public life and career that Michael Paré is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Paré's reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Michael Paré achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The following are specific activities that will support Michael Paré in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Paré, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Michael Paré should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put himself "out there", be seen and shine. Michael needs to be willing to take on a leading role. He needs to be a hero - a protagonist in his own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities he possesses. Doing creative work that he is proud of - anything that comes from Paré's heart and bears the stamp of Paré's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than he is a way for Michael Paré to grow and become more whole himself.
Michael Paré has to learn to communicate and express himself through the written or spoken word. It is best for Michael to study, learn skills and develop his intellectual interests and capacities. Paré needs to become involved in sharing and exchanging information with others and in developing his intellectual reasoning ability. Michael Paré should practice using his mind, his thinking skills and his ability to be objective. "Work smarter, not harder" might be a motto for him.
Writing, teaching, recording, transcribing, dialoguing, negotiating, mediating, communicating, or facilitating clear communication are significant activities for Michael Paré to pursue.
Michael has an inner need to share his experiences with others and he talks to his friends and acquaintances in a very open manner. Socially minded, Michael Paré likes to cultivate close relationships, especially with women.
Michael Paré is not in the least bit selfish and he has the ability to share the joy he feels with other people. Michael seems to have a gift for getting more reserved people to open up, teaching them how to give and receive love and affection.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Sagittarius
Saturn in 1st house
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Asc.
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Jupiter