He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own and others' emotions. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; John should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Lennon often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Lennon's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, John Lennon insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. John does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
John Lennon feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Lennon gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. John Lennon makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. John Lennon needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. John Lennon cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Lennon's motto.
There is a side to John Lennon which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Lennon can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Lennon. If John's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. John Lennon can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice John is particularly prone to.
His intimate relationships and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged, and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in John Lennon that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and his neediness often drives others away. When John Lennon does let himself feel close to another human being, painful long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as well perhaps grief at the losses he suffered, or anger at the neglect or hurt Lennon endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal those old issues. Lennon will do a lot of clearing and cleansing, if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, John Lennon will simply have a tumultuous, passionate, and stormy emotional life.
He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. John Lennon does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones, and often becomes a kind of servant to his love partner. John Lennon is more comfortable showing love for someone by doing something for them, making something for them, or simply being there for them - rather than telling them so in a romantic, soul-stirring sort of way. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. John Lennon also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness to receive love and appreciation.
When he cares about someone, John Lennon likes to serve them by doing small thoughtful favors, helping them, or doing something tangible to show his affection.
John Lennon has also considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, John is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in some way.
John Lennon has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find himself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Lennon could become quite obsessed by someone and he has a tendency to control and manipulate his relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 11th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 6th house
Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto