Though Matt Hardy at first seems rather intense, reserved and self-contained (as described on the previous page), he is really quite social and interested in people. And, while he is passionate and emotional, he is also quite capable of being fair, reasonable and rational as discussed below.
Harmony and balance are his keynotes. Matt Hardy instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and he is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Matt does all he can to avoid conflict and discord. His spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and he often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Hardy since he can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make his own decisions. Hardy will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. He prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on his own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Matt Hardy, and he has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Matt Hardy invests a great deal of his energy in personal love relationships and he is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Matt Hardy seeks a partner who is his equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. He makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and he enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Hardy perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Matt Hardy appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in his personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to him. If Matt Hardy fights about anything, it is often about something he feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Matt. He believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Matt Hardy also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Hardy dresses and furnishes his home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to him.
His career, reputation and public image are very important to Hardy. Matt Hardy has a strong desire to be influential or make his mark on the world. He is not satisfied with the personal sphere alone; his ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for his unique effort and gifts. Matt Hardy may undervalue the personal or inner facet of life.
Matt Hardy often feels that he is at cross purposes with himself, for his conscious intentions and desires conflict with his subconscious emotional needs and drives. He is torn in two different directions. Matt has difficulty satisfying both his need to be an individual and his need for caring relationships and a sense of belonging. Moreover, Matt sends out mixed messages so people do not always know how to respond to him or what Matt really wants, thereby creating confusion or conflict in close relationships.
He is assertive, energetic, active, courageous and vital. Matt Hardy has a very strong physical drive that expresses itself as sexuality and passion, a desire to compete with others, and a tendency to fight. Matt Hardy has a victorious spirit and the will to win.
Inwardly he is zealous and fanatical, though he may hide his personal desires and intentions, as well as the intensity of his feelings. He is driven by a deep inner sense of destiny and mission and an almost compulsive desire for personal recognition. Matt is infatuated with power, incredibly willful and stubbornly fixated on achieving greatness or being someone Special. Matt Hardy tends to worship heroes who have powerful personal magnetism and charisma, and he often seeks to emulate them. Matt has potential for tremendous good or tremendous evil.
He is inclined to feel uncomfortable or restrained in some way in the presence of others and prefer to be alone. Matt Hardy is modest and shy in his approach to others and tends to accept more responsibility than he really needs to.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Scorpio and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 10th house
Sun Square Moon
Sun Conjunct Mars
Sun Conjunct Pluto
Sun Conjunct Saturn/N. Node