challenges and difficulties
Hardy is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Matt Hardy may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Matt.
Matt may be plagued by fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death. He strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for him.
On another level entirely, Matt Hardy is very careful about joining forces, and especially his material resources, with others. Hardy wants to keep his own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Matt Hardy instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Matt Hardy needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Matt Hardy to become distracted from his path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to him. Matt Hardy needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Matt directs his attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", he is apt to dabble, scatter his energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for his life and aligning his daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Hardy's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward his personal development.
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Matt Hardy between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Matt Hardy seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Hardy's task.
The following are specific activities that will support Matt Hardy in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Hardy, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Matt Hardy should become more aware of the spiritual side of life and its underlying unity by getting involved in charitable activities and opening up his psychic channels. Meditation that develops Hardy's intuitive abilities, as well as learning about the unseen side of life through his own dream experiences or altered states of awareness, can be important steps in Matt's path.
Moreover, musical and artistic or imaginative endeavors will be important to him.
Matt Hardy is not in the least bit selfish and he has the ability to share the joy he feels with other people. Matt seems to have a gift for getting more reserved people to open up, teaching them how to give and receive love and affection.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 8th house
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Jupiter