approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Matt's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Matt Hardy comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Matt Hardy - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Matt Hardy" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Matt a little better. This page describes the disguise Hardy wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is very strong-willed and proud, but intensely private and not easy to know well. Behind Hardy's quiet exterior lies a great deal of emotional depth, sensitivity, complexity, and also fierce determination. When Matt Hardy wants something he goes after it rather quietly but insistently and wholeheartedly - and what Matt Hardy wants, Matt Hardy usually gets.
He is not a person who lives haphazardly or superficially. Matt wants to live passionately and intensely and is not averse to challenge, danger, or to facing the darker side of life - human pain and struggle. Matt Hardy functions well in crisis situations and he often seeks them out, for he enjoys the feeling of living at full capacity.
He is very intuitive about other people and especially about their unspoken feelings and hidden motives. Matt Hardy usually has strong, immediate gut reactions, either positive or negative, which prove to be correct. Hardy approaches life very instinctively and is not always fully conscious of why he feels or acts the way he does. Matt Hardy also has a very strong affinity with animals - an acute sensitivity and a nonverbal rapport with them.
In new relationships he is rather cautious, sometimes even suspicious, until he gets to know and trust someone - and trust does not come easily to Hardy. When Matt Hardy commits himself emotionally to someone, be it friend or lover, he is intensely loyal and devoted to them and he also expects the same kind of unwavering, undying loyalty in return. If he is ever betrayed by someone he cares deeply for, Matt Hardy is capable of hating and retaliating with as much fervor as he once loved. Nothing is done halfway. In fact, he is intensely involved and often jealously attached to whatever he cares about, be it person, idea, or cause. There is definitely a streak of emotional fanaticism in him.
Because of his natural reserve, others may see Matt Hardy as something of an enigma. He is quite self-protective and often defensive. Matt Hardy also has a very magnetic quality, especially to members of the opposite sex.
Matt Hardy can get by in life almost on his personality alone. There is a radiant, warm, attractive quality about Matt that others cannot help responding to favorably. Usually he appears confident and clear about who he is, and it is very difficult not to notice him or feel his influence when Hardy is around.
Hardy's intellect and emotions are well balanced. Matt has the ability to manage his feelings superbly and has a cautious, adaptable and open way about him. Matt Hardy likes to associate with the public and has an understanding for the "man on the street".
He is somewhat erratic and constantly looking for something new. Matt Hardy changes his opinions frequently and others never know what he will do next. Because Hardy is easily excitable and unpredictable, others may find it taxing to spend time with him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
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