challenges and difficulties
Marie d'Agoult takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Marie enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Marie d'Agoult also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Marie d'Agoult has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Marie limits herself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in herself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Marie d'Agoult difficult to get to know intimately, as d'Agoult tends to distance herself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
She is serious and sincere about her interests, does not accept superficial answers and is not easily placated. Marie wants her inspirations to become reality and she does not mind upsetting a few apple carts in the process. Marie d'Agoult becomes impatient with others for being hesitant to implement new ideas and take action, and her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Marie d'Agoult instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Marie d'Agoult needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Marie d'Agoult has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Marie d'Agoult needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Marie d'Agoult needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Marie d'Agoult is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In d'Agoult's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support Marie d'Agoult in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to d'Agoult, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Marie d'Agoult should develop true self-confidence and the willingness to put herself "out there", be seen and shine. Marie needs to be willing to take on a leading role. She needs to be a hero - a protagonist in her own story - by cultivating the courageous, active, and positive masculine qualities she possesses. Doing creative work that she is proud of - anything that comes from d'Agoult's heart and bears the stamp of d'Agoult's individuality - is important. Also, being a mentor, a helpful, encouraging force in the life of someone less experienced than she is a way for Marie d'Agoult to grow and become more whole herself.
Marie d'Agoult has a strong desire to take part in social functions and entertainment and cultivate an active exchange of thoughts with others. Marie also appreciates associations and has the ability to carry enterprises to a successful conclusion in team-work.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Conjunct Uranus
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Sun
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter