Lord Alfred Douglas motivation
His gift of gab (described in the previous chapter), combined with his need for relationships and togetherness (discussed in the following paragraphs), makes Lord Alfred Douglas a real "people person". He seems to need an ongoing, incessant dialogue! Indecisiveness can be a real problem for Lord Alfred Douglas since he sees many sides to an issue and always solicits the opinions of others before acting.
Harmony and balance are his keynotes. Lord Alfred Douglas instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and he is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Alfred does all he can to avoid conflict and discord. His spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and he often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Lord Douglas since he can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make his own decisions. Lord Douglas will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. He prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on his own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Lord Alfred Douglas, and he has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Lord Alfred Douglas invests a great deal of his energy in personal love relationships and he is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Lord Alfred Douglas seeks a partner who is his equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. He makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and he enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Lord Douglas perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Lord Alfred Douglas appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in his personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to him. If Lord Alfred Douglas fights about anything, it is often about something he feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Alfred. He believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Lord Alfred Douglas also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Lord Douglas dresses and furnishes his home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to him.
Lord Alfred Douglas has a very dramatic, creative, expressive nature and he loves to perform. Alfred enjoys being the center of attention and he seeks to shine, to excel, and to be outstanding in some unique way. He is very involved in his own creativity and self-expression, and takes great pleasure in developing and using his special talents be they artistic, athletic or intellectual. Lord Alfred Douglas has a strong sense of pride.
Lord Douglas can be an inspiring leader of a team or group effort. His dynamism and energy evokes the same in others, and he sees healthy competition between people as a plus. Generally, Lord Alfred Douglas enjoys fine health as well.
Alfred has lofty aspirations but does not struggle or labor to achieve them. His self-confidence and inner harmony attract success and benefit him in an almost magical way. His optimism and cheerful generosity also win Lord Douglas many allies and successes in life.
Impulsive, restless and spontaneous, his life is apt to be somewhat unstable and full of sudden changes. Lord Alfred Douglas is extremely independent and craves excitement, adventure, freedom and discovery. Lord Douglas has a rebellious streak and he often feels he is unusual and different from society's mainstream. The unorthodox and the novel appeal to him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Gemini and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 5th house
Sun Sextile Mars
Sun Trine Jupiter
Sun Square Uranus
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