Derek Jacobi
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Derek Jacobi is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Derek Jacobi is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

Derek Jacobi has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Derek sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Derek Jacobi is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Derek wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Derek Jacobi either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Derek Jacobi tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Jacobi's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Derek Jacobi will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Jacobi can be uncompromising at times. Derek Jacobi also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.

His emotional needs are very important to Derek Jacobi and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Jacobi will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.

His mind is very impressionable and sometimes his imagination could be a little misguided. Derek Jacobi loves to daydream and to live in his own world of fantasies. But he is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.

In love relationships, Derek Jacobi seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Derek, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Derek Jacobi supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Derek that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Derek Jacobi is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Derek Jacobi, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Jacobi and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Derek Jacobi appreciates artistic people.

Derek Jacobi loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Jacobi may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 1st house

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Conjunct Sun/Mars

Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Neptune

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Trine Pluto